What I learned from Bali 2019 (Part 1)

What did I learn from Bali 2019? That is a loaded question, for real.Here are some categories I explored/took away these past three weeks: MoneyRelationships1st World ProblemsTrustSafetyGratitude and AppreciationGroups of People Making DecisionsFear vs FearlessReligionLoving MyselfCompromisePerspectivesWho I want to work withThere is so much garbage Rice fields in Bali That's quite a bit of takeaway for…

Do you want a quick fix?

Ahhh the common theme I hear from people these days without them asking for it in that way. Everyone wants the next best thing. They don't want to invest the time or money to change. They want to find the fastest way possible to succeed. They don't want to wait. They are impatient and anxious.…

You Don’t Need to Choose Drama

What's your life like currently in this moment? Is it full of fun, honesty, and integrity?Is it full of toxicity, drama, and colluding? I've definitely had the experience of both realms and one of them ain't pretty.  I listened to a podcast the other day about how our unhealed emotional wounds are driving us to make…

What’s Your Impact?

Hi there, I assisted in a 3-day coach training weekend course in Toronto. The curriculum is through the coaches training institute which is where I am pursuing my certified coach certificate. It was the first course out of 5 so think of it as an introduction to coaching and the model we use. I remember…

We all want to feel a sense of belonging

Man oh man oh man. I am in a state of loving the people around me. I'm creating something that feels different to me right now. My work is shifting and feels like transitioning. I'm just being me, and people love it. I feel the gravitational, magnetic pull by me just showing up. It's easy…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Are you closing the door too soon?

I've experienced a very important lesson over and over again during the month of November. It kept knocking on my door, and it came through many people and business opportunities. IĀ understood something about myself that was a massive shift and will be moving forward. It's interesting; I've started to notice how I feel about people…

Stop Putting Everyone in the Better Than Box

What types of assumptions and expectations do you have around new people you meet? I'm noticing that my assumptions and expectations of people are off base it's not even funny. What do I mean by this? I have a default when I meet someone new, and that is I automatically put people in the better…

Your Expectations are Killing your Relationships

How many of you have experienced a friendship going sour or a relationship ending in heartbreak? Do you know why the relationship ended? Have you owned up to the parts where you contributed to the diabolic catastrophe? Or maybe it wasn't diabolic and it just fizzled out. Well, if you have the perspective that it…

We are missing the mark…and it ain’t pretty

What are we doing? Lately, my weekends consist of learning, personal growth, and skill practice. Usually, I like to take myself out of my comfort zone and just BE instead of running the list of action items I need to do on the weekend, even though that still needs to get done..at some point. Not…