How I learned to love myself

This is a post about how I learned to be the person I always needed growing up. I didn't even know that this kind of stuff existed until very recently.How this became true for me was with a lot of forgiveness (still working on this), letting go of who I once thought I needed to…

You Don’t Need to Choose Drama

What's your life like currently in this moment? Is it full of fun, honesty, and integrity?Is it full of toxicity, drama, and colluding? I've definitely had the experience of both realms and one of them ain't pretty.  I listened to a podcast the other day about how our unhealed emotional wounds are driving us to make…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Stop Putting Everyone in the Better Than Box

What types of assumptions and expectations do you have around new people you meet? I'm noticing that my assumptions and expectations of people are off base it's not even funny. What do I mean by this? I have a default when I meet someone new, and that is I automatically put people in the better…

How I Learned to Express Myself in the World

Self-expression in the real world Do you feel uncomfortable or embarrassed to be who you are in the world? Do you feel a shameful feeling, like you want to hide the real you because you're afraid of being rejected by others? Fearful of what people will think of you, and what they will say about…

You can try doing it on your own, but you don’t have to

Hi there and welcome 2018! I decided not to write the official New Years post sharing what I learned and what I intend to do for 2018 because let's face it, it's overkill. Instead, I wanted to write about the art of asking for help because I've thought a lot about this lately. People are…

What’s your batting average?

Is your batting average a big fat zero? Or a nice .400? In baseball, if you are hitting at .400%, you are the all-time MVP. Trust me. I'm calling the next chapter of my life; Nothing to Lose. I spent a lot of time not taking action on the things that are most important to…

Be Your Superhero

Hi there, Back in the day, I watched Sailor Moon everyday after school at 4PM btw.  She was a Japanese anime character with two identities. One identity was her regular life as a teenager in high school and the other as Sailor Moon, the superhero. When danger reared its ugly head, she used her inner leader to save the…