We all want to feel a sense of belonging

Man oh man oh man. I am in a state of loving the people around me. I'm creating something that feels different to me right now. My work is shifting and feels like transitioning. I'm just being me, and people love it. I feel the gravitational, magnetic pull by me just showing up. It's easy…

Your Body Knows More Than You Think

Did you know that your body has more wisdom than your brain does? Our minds are intelligent, keeps us alive, keeps all the functions working behind the scenes, is analytical, retains information, allows us to be creative, and the list goes on. Your brain can be your ally or your enemy, depending on how you…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Are you closing the door too soon?

I've experienced a very important lesson over and over again during the month of November. It kept knocking on my door, and it came through many people and business opportunities. I understood something about myself that was a massive shift and will be moving forward. It's interesting; I've started to notice how I feel about people…

Stop Putting Everyone in the Better Than Box

What types of assumptions and expectations do you have around new people you meet? I'm noticing that my assumptions and expectations of people are off base it's not even funny. What do I mean by this? I have a default when I meet someone new, and that is I automatically put people in the better…

Your Expectations are Killing your Relationships

How many of you have experienced a friendship going sour or a relationship ending in heartbreak? Do you know why the relationship ended? Have you owned up to the parts where you contributed to the diabolic catastrophe? Or maybe it wasn't diabolic and it just fizzled out. Well, if you have the perspective that it…

We are missing the mark…and it ain’t pretty

What are we doing? Lately, my weekends consist of learning, personal growth, and skill practice. Usually, I like to take myself out of my comfort zone and just BE instead of running the list of action items I need to do on the weekend, even though that still needs to get done..at some point. Not…

What is Emotional Decoupling?

How do I emotionally detach from people and circumstances? Oh, man was this ever a lesson that kept knocking on my door. I literally mean over and over and over again. It still knocks on my door in the hopes that I will respond the same way I used to in my past life. You…

What does a new way of being look like?

Happy long weekend! If you live in Ontario, Canada, you probably took this extra long weekend to enjoy the summer weather, and I mean that literally. It was HOT. It's usually a time of the year where most people take some time to reflect on their lives because back to school is just around the…

Breaking Down Your Shoulds…In My Opinion

Has your life been on autopilot over the years, more so, many years? I KNOW you weren't on autopilot as a child. You were curious, carefree, passionate, present, playful, observed everything even. Then something happened. What happened? You bought into an idea of how you should live your life. What does your list of should's…