So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Stop Putting Everyone in the Better Than Box

What types of assumptions and expectations do you have around new people you meet? I'm noticing that my assumptions and expectations of people are off base it's not even funny. What do I mean by this? I have a default when I meet someone new, and that is I automatically put people in the better…

What is Emotional Decoupling?

How do I emotionally detach from people and circumstances? Oh, man was this ever a lesson that kept knocking on my door. I literally mean over and over and over again. It still knocks on my door in the hopes that I will respond the same way I used to in my past life. You…

How I Learned to Express Myself in the World

Self-expression in the real world Do you feel uncomfortable or embarrassed to be who you are in the world? Do you feel a shameful feeling, like you want to hide the real you because you're afraid of being rejected by others? Fearful of what people will think of you, and what they will say about…

Breaking Down Your Shoulds…In My Opinion

Has your life been on autopilot over the years, more so, many years? I KNOW you weren't on autopilot as a child. You were curious, carefree, passionate, present, playful, observed everything even. Then something happened. What happened? You bought into an idea of how you should live your life. What does your list of should's…

Stop Giving Your Power Away

Hi there! So this is something that has been coming up for me a lot lately considering all of the beautiful things I am juggling at the moment. Here are a few to let you in a little more on my world: Working on my training and coaching business and all that comes with it…