What are you not allowing IN?

If you are holding tightly to something, within the illusion of control, what are you NOT allowing IN? When I heard myself say this out loud with my business coach the other day, I thought to myself, damn. That's been me! As much as I pride myself on thinking I'm an over evolved human and more…

Boundaries are a Thing.

The dreaded word for some of us is "boundaries."  I'm not sure why we dread it or why it makes us uncomfortable, but for some reason or reasons, it does. I used to be someone who struggled with this a lot. I learned a dynamic of codependency as the norm, and I began to see…

What I learned from Bali 2019 (Part 1)

What did I learn from Bali 2019? That is a loaded question, for real.Here are some categories I explored/took away these past three weeks: MoneyRelationships1st World ProblemsTrustSafetyGratitude and AppreciationGroups of People Making DecisionsFear vs FearlessReligionLoving MyselfCompromisePerspectivesWho I want to work withThere is so much garbage Rice fields in Bali That's quite a bit of takeaway for…

Human Beings Are Incredible

We are so complex. We are so paradoxical. We are so ambiguous. We are so much more than we believe ourselves to be capable of being. We are so much more powerful than we give ourselves credit for. Some of us have NO idea the immense crazy and beauty we can be all together, all…

You Don’t Need to Choose Drama

What's your life like currently in this moment? Is it full of fun, honesty, and integrity?Is it full of toxicity, drama, and colluding? I've definitely had the experience of both realms and one of them ain't pretty.  I listened to a podcast the other day about how our unhealed emotional wounds are driving us to make…

We all want to feel a sense of belonging

Man oh man oh man. I am in a state of loving the people around me. I'm creating something that feels different to me right now. My work is shifting and feels like transitioning. I'm just being me, and people love it. I feel the gravitational, magnetic pull by me just showing up. It's easy…

Abracadabra

Abracadabra comes from a Hebrew saying which means in English - "I will create as I will speak." Clever magicians! What words are you choosing to say out loud that is stopping you in your tracks? Do you know that it's doing this? Everything you say I don't have enough or know enough you send…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Are you closing the door too soon?

I've experienced a very important lesson over and over again during the month of November. It kept knocking on my door, and it came through many people and business opportunities. I¬†understood something about myself that was a massive shift and will be moving forward. It's interesting; I've started to notice how I feel about people…

Stop Putting Everyone in the Better Than Box

What types of assumptions and expectations do you have around new people you meet? I'm noticing that my assumptions and expectations of people are off base it's not even funny. What do I mean by this? I have a default when I meet someone new, and that is I automatically put people in the better…