What if I don’t want to “Grow Up”?

What if you don't want to grow up? What if the thought of growing up sounds boring to you? What if trying to check off all the boxes to fit into a society that expects you to "grow up" is the opposite of how you want to live your life? What then? What happens next.…

What I learned from Bali 2019 (Part 1)

What did I learn from Bali 2019? That is a loaded question, for real.Here are some categories I explored/took away these past three weeks: MoneyRelationships1st World ProblemsTrustSafetyGratitude and AppreciationGroups of People Making DecisionsFear vs FearlessReligionLoving MyselfCompromisePerspectivesWho I want to work withThere is so much garbage Rice fields in Bali That's quite a bit of takeaway for…

How I learned to love myself

This is a post about how I learned to be the person I always needed growing up. I didn't even know that this kind of stuff existed until very recently.How this became true for me was with a lot of forgiveness (still working on this), letting go of who I once thought I needed to…

Human Beings Are Incredible

We are so complex. We are so paradoxical. We are so ambiguous. We are so much more than we believe ourselves to be capable of being. We are so much more powerful than we give ourselves credit for. Some of us have NO idea the immense crazy and beauty we can be all together, all…

What’s Your Impact?

Hi there, I assisted in a 3-day coach training weekend course in Toronto. The curriculum is through the coaches training institute which is where I am pursuing my certified coach certificate. It was the first course out of 5 so think of it as an introduction to coaching and the model we use. I remember…

We all want to feel a sense of belonging

Man oh man oh man. I am in a state of loving the people around me. I'm creating something that feels different to me right now. My work is shifting and feels like transitioning. I'm just being me, and people love it. I feel the gravitational, magnetic pull by me just showing up. It's easy…

Abracadabra

Abracadabra comes from a Hebrew saying which means in English - "I will create as I will speak." Clever magicians! What words are you choosing to say out loud that is stopping you in your tracks? Do you know that it's doing this? Everything you say I don't have enough or know enough you send…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Are you closing the door too soon?

I've experienced a very important lesson over and over again during the month of November. It kept knocking on my door, and it came through many people and business opportunities. I¬†understood something about myself that was a massive shift and will be moving forward. It's interesting; I've started to notice how I feel about people…

Your Expectations are Killing your Relationships

How many of you have experienced a friendship going sour or a relationship ending in heartbreak? Do you know why the relationship ended? Have you owned up to the parts where you contributed to the diabolic catastrophe? Or maybe it wasn't diabolic and it just fizzled out. Well, if you have the perspective that it…