Abracadabra

Abracadabra comes from a Hebrew saying which means in English - "I will create as I will speak." Clever magicians! What words are you choosing to say out loud that is stopping you in your tracks? Do you know that it's doing this? Everything you say I don't have enough or know enough you send…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Are you closing the door too soon?

I've experienced a very important lesson over and over again during the month of November. It kept knocking on my door, and it came through many people and business opportunities. I understood something about myself that was a massive shift and will be moving forward. It's interesting; I've started to notice how I feel about people…

Your Expectations are Killing your Relationships

How many of you have experienced a friendship going sour or a relationship ending in heartbreak? Do you know why the relationship ended? Have you owned up to the parts where you contributed to the diabolic catastrophe? Or maybe it wasn't diabolic and it just fizzled out. Well, if you have the perspective that it…

We are missing the mark…and it ain’t pretty

What are we doing? Lately, my weekends consist of learning, personal growth, and skill practice. Usually, I like to take myself out of my comfort zone and just BE instead of running the list of action items I need to do on the weekend, even though that still needs to get done..at some point. Not…

How to accept feedback when you don’t agree with it?

Hiya! I hope you had a fabulous Thanksgiving weekend and spent some time with your friends and family before our next big Holiday season. We know how busy it will get! I was asked this question recently in a workshop of mine which was, "How do I accept feedback and not take it personally? "…

Making a Big Decision that will Change your Life

Should I choose the apple or the doughnut for a snack? Ugh, I don't want to hurt my teeth biting into that apple. But it's better for me and has fewer calories. Oh, that doughnut looks delicious, and it would fill me up so nicely. Look at those sprinkles. It kind of reminds me of…

Everyone wants to be invited to the party.

But not everyone wants to commit to attending. Sound familiar? Do you have or HAD friends that always wanted an invite to everything you were doing and then they wouldn't show? Even better, they wouldn't tell you that they weren't coming or tell you very last minute. They are also the people that usually get…

The Ultimate Guide to Having Difficult Conversations

Being a leader is tough, isn't it? ESPECIALLY when you don't even know that you are a leader yet. You see I believe that everyone is born a leader and often, there are people who go on with their lives and act very leaderly, and STILL, don't consider themselves as leaders because of what other's…