They Say What You Want Doesn’t Exist

They say what you want doesn't exist. I have a PSA announcement to the ladies (specifically) and men out there who think they know what you need in a relationship. I recently had an experience where something inside of me was activated. Something I hadn't felt in a long time with the opposite sex. It…

What if I told you that you are choosing your life?

Even if you haven't made a decision on that thing, you are still choosing it to be that way.You are always at choice. ALWAYS. You are far more resourceful than you give yourself credit for, did you know that? You have access to resources you haven't even considered yet and then some.You are fully capable of…

How I learned to love myself

This is a post about how I learned to be the person I always needed growing up. I didn't even know that this kind of stuff existed until very recently.How this became true for me was with a lot of forgiveness (still working on this), letting go of who I once thought I needed to…

You Don’t Need to Choose Drama

What's your life like currently in this moment? Is it full of fun, honesty, and integrity?Is it full of toxicity, drama, and colluding? I've definitely had the experience of both realms and one of them ain't pretty.  I listened to a podcast the other day about how our unhealed emotional wounds are driving us to make…

Are you closing the door too soon?

I've experienced a very important lesson over and over again during the month of November. It kept knocking on my door, and it came through many people and business opportunities. I understood something about myself that was a massive shift and will be moving forward. It's interesting; I've started to notice how I feel about people…

Your Expectations are Killing your Relationships

How many of you have experienced a friendship going sour or a relationship ending in heartbreak? Do you know why the relationship ended? Have you owned up to the parts where you contributed to the diabolic catastrophe? Or maybe it wasn't diabolic and it just fizzled out. Well, if you have the perspective that it…

How to accept feedback when you don’t agree with it?

Hiya! I hope you had a fabulous Thanksgiving weekend and spent some time with your friends and family before our next big Holiday season. We know how busy it will get! I was asked this question recently in a workshop of mine which was, "How do I accept feedback and not take it personally? "…

Show up and ask for help

What am I talking about? I've had multiple experiences in the last few months and what I'm talking about is showing up for people when you expect nothing in return and when they don't expect you to show up. What happens after this is magical. There's something about approaching situations with curiosity and letting it…

The Ultimate Guide to Having Difficult Conversations

Being a leader is tough, isn't it? ESPECIALLY when you don't even know that you are a leader yet. You see I believe that everyone is born a leader and often, there are people who go on with their lives and act very leaderly, and STILL, don't consider themselves as leaders because of what other's…