Resilience + Positive Intelligence During Times of Uncertainty

So, it is day something into self-quarantine, with no end date in sight. The end date keeps on changing, and we wonder when this can all be a distant memory. Some of us are losing our jobs; people aren't buying or spending money except on essentials, rent is up in the air, some of us…

STOP WORKPLACE GOSSIP, please ;)

Have you ever been bitten by the gossip bug at work? We ALL have, and I'd say I don't like admitting that I have multiple times. According to research, as explained in Psychology Today, conducted by a team from the University of Amsterdam, 90 percent of office conversations are actually gossips. Researchers at Georgia Institute…

Accountability and Consequences – Related?

What happens when you don't do what you say you are going to do? What happens when your impact on others is toxic, and you've heard the feedback already? What happens when you believe that you can say whatever you need to say to get the results you want? What happens next? I ran a…

What if I don’t want to “Grow Up”?

What if you don't want to grow up? What if the thought of growing up sounds boring to you? What if trying to check off all the boxes to fit into a society that expects you to "grow up" is the opposite of how you want to live your life? What then? What happens next.…

What I learned from Bali 2019 (Part 1)

What did I learn from Bali 2019? That is a loaded question, for real.Here are some categories I explored/took away these past three weeks: MoneyRelationships1st World ProblemsTrustSafetyGratitude and AppreciationGroups of People Making DecisionsFear vs FearlessReligionLoving MyselfCompromisePerspectivesWho I want to work withThere is so much garbage Rice fields in Bali That's quite a bit of takeaway for…

Do you want a quick fix?

Ahhh the common theme I hear from people these days without them asking for it in that way. Everyone wants the next best thing. They don't want to invest the time or money to change. They want to find the fastest way possible to succeed. They don't want to wait. They are impatient and anxious.…

What’s Your Relationship to Instant Gratification?

Instant gratification is an addiction. We want everything fast and NOW. If it's not available, we get antsy. We don't want to wait two weeks for an online shopping shipment to arrive, let alone two weeks for someone's schedule to open up so they can "hang out" or date you. You want Netflix to upload…

We are missing the mark…and it ain’t pretty

What are we doing? Lately, my weekends consist of learning, personal growth, and skill practice. Usually, I like to take myself out of my comfort zone and just BE instead of running the list of action items I need to do on the weekend, even though that still needs to get done..at some point. Not…