STOP WORKPLACE GOSSIP, please ;)

Have you ever been bitten by the gossip bug at work? We ALL have, and I'd say I don't like admitting that I have multiple times. According to research, as explained in Psychology Today, conducted by a team from the University of Amsterdam, 90 percent of office conversations are actually gossips. Researchers at Georgia Institute…

Are you allowing others to dictate your time?

Are you caught being dragged into places you don't want to go to?You have a lot of obligations with family, work,¬†friends, boyfriend/partner/spouse that you HAVE to go to, and I get that.Within all of these¬†things that you are obligated and most likely guilt-tripped to do, you are also not scheduling activities that align with your…

At some point, you will

How's week two of 2020 going so far for you? Is it week two or week three? I can't tell.There is something in the air that we can't see, and it's making people rethink their lives and what's next for them. The world is going through a lot, and we, as humans, have contributed to…

Letting Go of Old Stories in 2020

Photo Credit: Photo by¬†Yuvraj Singh¬†on¬†Unsplash Welcome to 2020! It's officially here.¬† As the new year and new decade is officially our reality, I have a lot to say about that. For my newsletter, I will share with you a bit instead ūüėČ  Something I realized recently but always knew deep down inside was that our…

Emotions – Friend or Foe?

Emotions are energy or energy in motion.Often, we aren't allowed to show emotion in the workplace or in our lives because it seems inappropriate, and it makes us look a certain way to others as they perceive it. Here are some phrases that are thrown around: "Oh, suck it up and just do it or get over…

Nourish Your Mind, Body and Soul

It's a term I heard a lot and had no idea what that looked like for me. I also know now that I wasn't putting it into practice.¬†I feel like when it comes to "performance," there is a certain level of care you need to put your attention to because the only instrument you have…

What if I don’t want to “Grow Up”?

What if you don't want to grow up? What if the thought of growing up sounds boring to you? What if trying to check off all the boxes to fit into a society that expects you to "grow up" is the opposite of how you want to live your life? What then? What happens next.…

What I learned from Bali 2019 (Part 1)

What did I learn from Bali 2019? That is a loaded question, for real.Here are some categories I explored/took away these past three weeks: MoneyRelationships1st World ProblemsTrustSafetyGratitude and AppreciationGroups of People Making DecisionsFear vs FearlessReligionLoving MyselfCompromisePerspectivesWho I want to work withThere is so much garbage Rice fields in Bali That's quite a bit of takeaway for…

Do you want a quick fix?

Ahhh the common theme I hear from people these days without them asking for it in that way. Everyone wants the next best thing. They don't want to invest the time or money to change. They want to find the fastest way possible to succeed. They don't want to wait. They are impatient and anxious.…

They Say What You Want Doesn’t Exist

They say what you want doesn't exist. I have a PSA announcement to the ladies (specifically) and men out there who think they know what you need in a relationship. I recently had an experience where something inside of me was activated. Something I hadn't felt in a long time with the opposite sex. It…