Achieving Your Goals in a Crisis

2020 STARTED OUT WITH SO MUCH PROMISE, NOW WHAT?When Your Goals Shift Because Circumstances Change. 2020 started out with so much promise and we were feeling revved up for what was to come, then sh*t hit the fan, self-doubt, anxiety and uncertainty came into the mix.How do we shift, pivot and restructure our goals to…

Resilience + Positive Intelligence During Times of Uncertainty

So, it is day something into self-quarantine, with no end date in sight. The end date keeps on changing, and we wonder when this can all be a distant memory. Some of us are losing our jobs; people aren't buying or spending money except on essentials, rent is up in the air, some of us…

STOP WORKPLACE GOSSIP, please ;)

Have you ever been bitten by the gossip bug at work? We ALL have, and I'd say I don't like admitting that I have multiple times. According to research, as explained in Psychology Today, conducted by a team from the University of Amsterdam, 90 percent of office conversations are actually gossips. Researchers at Georgia Institute…

Boundaries are a Thing.

The dreaded word for some of us is "boundaries."  I'm not sure why we dread it or why it makes us uncomfortable, but for some reason or reasons, it does. I used to be someone who struggled with this a lot. I learned a dynamic of codependency as the norm, and I began to see…

Accountability and Consequences – Related?

What happens when you don't do what you say you are going to do? What happens when your impact on others is toxic, and you've heard the feedback already? What happens when you believe that you can say whatever you need to say to get the results you want? What happens next? I ran a…

At some point, you will

How's week two of 2020 going so far for you? Is it week two or week three? I can't tell.There is something in the air that we can't see, and it's making people rethink their lives and what's next for them. The world is going through a lot, and we, as humans, have contributed to…

Letting Go of Old Stories in 2020

Photo Credit: Photo by Yuvraj Singh on Unsplash Welcome to 2020! It's officially here.  As the new year and new decade is officially our reality, I have a lot to say about that. For my newsletter, I will share with you a bit instead 😉  Something I realized recently but always knew deep down inside was that our…

Emotions – Friend or Foe?

Emotions are energy or energy in motion.Often, we aren't allowed to show emotion in the workplace or in our lives because it seems inappropriate, and it makes us look a certain way to others as they perceive it. Here are some phrases that are thrown around: "Oh, suck it up and just do it or get over…

What I learned from Bali 2019 (Part 1)

What did I learn from Bali 2019? That is a loaded question, for real.Here are some categories I explored/took away these past three weeks: MoneyRelationships1st World ProblemsTrustSafetyGratitude and AppreciationGroups of People Making DecisionsFear vs FearlessReligionLoving MyselfCompromisePerspectivesWho I want to work withThere is so much garbage Rice fields in Bali That's quite a bit of takeaway for…

What you didn’t get growing up, is what you are good at today.

Here is something I realize as I have a full-practice of coaching clients, I run group programs, and I deliver workshops... let's say, I listen A LOT. Sometimes, I'm hearing so much that I think to myself, who will hear me out!?!? One of the things I didn't have full certainty of was safety when…