Behind the Scenes of the Vortex

What is the vortex?

It’s the place of least resistance. It’s a place where vast amounts of opportunities and people come your way without even trying. It’s a place where people say yes to you in your business. It is when your network reaches out to you because they want to be Coached by you or have a job for you. It is such a fantastic place to be. There is no other place like it, and everything feels synchronous.

I experienced the vortex in full force after a whole weekend of coaching training. I had another one of my life changing training weekends as part of me being a certified co-active coach. As I continue this journey, I have clarity in who I am, what I want for myself and how I want to serve in the world. It takes a lot of work and leadership coaching to uncover your life’s purpose. Greatest investment I made to myself and the skills I learn will help others towards their life purpose.

I finished Fulfillment training on a Sunday, and I fell into the beautiful world of the vortex on Tuesday of that week. It was as if everything I had been asking for came to me on this day. Everything that took SO long to happen all of a sudden was happening, and it was effortless. This is what happens in the vortex. I was in full alignment with what I want for myself, and because of this, the Universe was responding accordingly with little to no effort.

The following happened:

-I was asked to coach three people that day
-Two people referred me to leads in my business
-A friend I wanted to connect with for quite some time messaged me to set up dinner – yay
-Everyone was saying yes to me, and so I continued to take action, and it was as if my life was opening up. All good vibes and positive reinforcement.

You can be in the vortex or out of the vortex depending on where you are vibrationally. I came out of the vortex the next day because I received some bad news and that was all I could focus on for the next 10 hours. When you begin to think negatively or feel wrong, you can bet you’re out of alignment and most likely out of the vortex where things can happen! It’s as if being in the vortex is allowing it to happen.

Picture your life being smooth, breezy, and effortless. You are still taking action towards your larger purpose and not thrown off by the incoming lousy news. Bad news will never go away. Therefore, to stay in the vortex, resiliency will be your best friend.

Sounds delicious, doesn’t it? I am offering a free coaching giveaway to one to two lucky people! It’s called Change Your World Through Your Work three-month coaching program. Click here to learn more about the program.

To enter your name to win,click hereand fill out your details for a chance to win free coaching with me. The deadline to put your name in the ring is December 20th. I will be reaching out to all who applied. I don’t offer free coaching often; however, it is the Holidays 🙂

I look forward to seeing your name in the contest and will reach out.

-Sonia

 

You Give Your External World Way Too Much Power

It’s been awhile since I last posted and that’s mostly because there has been a LOT of action I’ve been taking in my life 🙂

Flirting with opportunities, flirting in the dating world ;), taking action on my goals and setting my finances STRAIGHT. Oh and I’ve also taken up tennis lessons which btw I realize I missed my calling. For someone who has NEVER played tennis for 30 years, I am DAMN good as a beginner lol.

Today, I am here to talk to you about how we give a lot of value on the external world around us. What I mean by that is we put a lot of focus and energy on things like:

Money: how much money we make
Career: your job title
Education: your highest education background
Automotive: the car we drive
Relationship Status: married, in a relationship or single
Home: mortgage before 30
Social Media: how many likes on Facebook we have, how many friends or followers we have
Hobbies: Do we have hobbies? Or not?
Fun & Recreation: Do we play sports, hiking, kayaking, gym, yoga

I think you get the point, however, let me go further.

Now the scary part about all of this is that if we do not have the things we thought we’d have by a certain age or we see others have the things we want by our age, we feel sad, helpless, powerless. It’s as if these achievements are not meant for us, or we are not good enough to have them. How many times do I hear my clients talk about all the things their friends have that they do not have yet. Ugh.

We give WAY too much power to our external world. I know this firsthand because I have been doing it for years. The result of this is that I always felt disappointed and unhappy. Yes, I know, the people around you don’t make it any better or easier for that matter. They are the ones telling you that you are running out of time, wasting your time, or your childbearing years are soon coming to an end so just pick one already! The pressure to fit into what the world wants you to be is overwhelming, confusing, and stressful. For real. #truth

I used to put a lot of value on my career and money which is still very important to me. Now that I have discovered my vision and mission, things are much clearer to me. I have a sense of calm, clarity and peace. I genuinely believe in the work that I do and understand that the world desperately needs this work. Regardless of things like budgets, resources, bottom line, and profits. I trust myself more because I know what value I can bring to the world and I see its impact. My impact is intense and its been a powerful movement I’ve witnessed in the past year.

Before I figured this out, I was chasing everything and anything just to get ahead. Spinning my wheels as if I wasn’t progressing, however, moving backward instead. It wasn’t until I recognized the value I had to give was when things began to shift for me. I used to take side jobs left right and center that paid very low because I started to believe that I didn’t have what it takes to impact and lead change. What I forgot about my inner truth was that I am an influential leader who sets people free of themselves. It was not entirely my fault as like I said the world around you creates a lot of unnecessary noise that makes you lose sight of who you are. When that happens, and you begin to believe them, you accept anything. Because something is better than nothing, sound familiar to you?

I said no to my dream job that plenty of people would kill to have because I didn’t want to wait for them to figure their s*#@ out, pay me appropriately, and put me on a full-time salary. It’s a year later, and they just posted for a full-time Manager position looking for someone to manage precisely what I was looking after and the responsibilities I had.

Where am I now though? I’m working with a Toronto Hospital with the most fantastic team I could have ever imagined. I have the flexibility to work on my dream business and movement to help people achieve their dreams and contribute to their larger purpose in life. I visit Universities in Ontario and speak to students, inspire them to think larger than themselves and develop their confidence muscles. The only limitations we have is ourselves. Students are the best!

When you begin to say NO to things that do not serve you or your more significant purpose, your life MOVES. Let me tell you does it ever move forward and pretty damn fast. Say NO to that guy or girl who sucks up your time and energy and isn’t going anywhere just to pass the time until something else better comes along. Say NO to that job that you hate. Say NO to those friends that are small thinkers and get jealous when you succeed. Say NO to the family commitments that no longer matter and say Yes to the ones that do. Say NO to the things that waste your time and energy. It’s all your choice at the end of the day, and no one can make you feel guilty about it, even when they try. You give them that power to feel like crap. Train them otherwise.

This is what focusing on your internal world looks like. Your inner world is who you are, what you value, what you need, your beliefs and perceptions, and your larger purpose in this life. Start to pay attention to how your external world makes you feel. We’ve been trained to accept anything that comes our way, but, you are far more creative and powerful than that. Your power comes from you choosing and going after what you want. Your influence is your impact. Take a look at your world around you, and if it isn’t up to par, you need your inner world to change and refocus.

I can help you refocus your inner world like I have this past year. Your external world will naturally shift and be the way you want and need it be. It takes courage and carefree resiliency to change your inner world, and I can support you through this journey. Are you ready?

Schedule a call with me by clicking here, and let’s talk.

xo Sonia