STOP WORKPLACE GOSSIP, please ;)

Have you ever been bitten by the gossip bug at work? We ALL have, and I'd say I don't like admitting that I have multiple times. According to research, as explained in Psychology Today, conducted by a team from the University of Amsterdam, 90 percent of office conversations are actually gossips. Researchers at Georgia Institute…

Are you allowing others to dictate your time?

Are you caught being dragged into places you don't want to go to?You have a lot of obligations with family, work, friends, boyfriend/partner/spouse that you HAVE to go to, and I get that.Within all of these things that you are obligated and most likely guilt-tripped to do, you are also not scheduling activities that align with your…

What are you not allowing IN?

If you are holding tightly to something, within the illusion of control, what are you NOT allowing IN? When I heard myself say this out loud with my business coach the other day, I thought to myself, damn. That's been me! As much as I pride myself on thinking I'm an over evolved human and more…

Boundaries are a Thing.

The dreaded word for some of us is "boundaries."  I'm not sure why we dread it or why it makes us uncomfortable, but for some reason or reasons, it does. I used to be someone who struggled with this a lot. I learned a dynamic of codependency as the norm, and I began to see…

Letting Go of Old Stories in 2020

Photo Credit: Photo by Yuvraj Singh on Unsplash Welcome to 2020! It's officially here.  As the new year and new decade is officially our reality, I have a lot to say about that. For my newsletter, I will share with you a bit instead 😉  Something I realized recently but always knew deep down inside was that our…

What if I don’t want to “Grow Up”?

What if you don't want to grow up? What if the thought of growing up sounds boring to you? What if trying to check off all the boxes to fit into a society that expects you to "grow up" is the opposite of how you want to live your life? What then? What happens next.…

What I learned from Bali (part 2)

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. My family had lasagna AND turkey this year! It was delicious.I started to practice what I preach ever since I came back from vacation.One of the big things for me this year was overextending myself, emotionally and mentally. I could have done a lot more excise to extend myself…

Do you want a quick fix?

Ahhh the common theme I hear from people these days without them asking for it in that way. Everyone wants the next best thing. They don't want to invest the time or money to change. They want to find the fastest way possible to succeed. They don't want to wait. They are impatient and anxious.…