We all want to feel a sense of belonging

Man oh man oh man. I am in a state of loving the people around me. I'm creating something that feels different to me right now. My work is shifting and feels like transitioning. I'm just being me, and people love it. I feel the gravitational, magnetic pull by me just showing up. It's easy…

Abracadabra

Abracadabra comes from a Hebrew saying which means in English - "I will create as I will speak." Clever magicians! What words are you choosing to say out loud that is stopping you in your tracks? Do you know that it's doing this? Everything you say I don't have enough or know enough you send…

What’s Your Relationship to Instant Gratification?

Instant gratification is an addiction. We want everything fast and NOW. If it's not available, we get antsy. We don't want to wait two weeks for an online shopping shipment to arrive, let alone two weeks for someone's schedule to open up so they can "hang out" or date you. You want Netflix to upload…

So you want to be a big deal?

What does a "big deal" even mean? Does it mean more success? Does it mean that you want to be famous? Does it mean you want people to know who you are? Does it mean you want to have more power? Does it mean you want people to take you seriously? How do you spend…

Stop Putting Everyone in the Better Than Box

What types of assumptions and expectations do you have around new people you meet? I'm noticing that my assumptions and expectations of people are off base it's not even funny. What do I mean by this? I have a default when I meet someone new, and that is I automatically put people in the better…

Show up and ask for help

What am I talking about? I've had multiple experiences in the last few months and what I'm talking about is showing up for people when you expect nothing in return and when they don't expect you to show up. What happens after this is magical. There's something about approaching situations with curiosity and letting it…