What no longer fits are your clues to who you are becoming

What no longer fits are your clues to who you are becoming I listened to Christine Hassler's podcast yesterday morning during my hike (yes my hike) called Break Through Money Blocks to Live a Richer Life with Ramit. You can find the podcast here.This is something I am including as part of my daily practice as there have been…

Achieving Your Goals in a Crisis

2020 STARTED OUT WITH SO MUCH PROMISE, NOW WHAT?When Your Goals Shift Because Circumstances Change. 2020 started out with so much promise and we were feeling revved up for what was to come, then sh*t hit the fan, self-doubt, anxiety and uncertainty came into the mix.How do we shift, pivot and restructure our goals to…

Resilience + Positive Intelligence During Times of Uncertainty

So, it is day something into self-quarantine, with no end date in sight. The end date keeps on changing, and we wonder when this can all be a distant memory. Some of us are losing our jobs; people aren't buying or spending money except on essentials, rent is up in the air, some of us…

How to lead in the present moment

Pause.Stop.Take a look around.The world has to stand still to see the messageā€”there is too much noise.What are you seeing now? What's here that you couldn't see before?We are responsible for the world we create. Are you asking yourself, am I showing up lovingly right now?Tolerance, patience, community, creativity will be a marker of our resilience…

STOP WORKPLACE GOSSIP, please ;)

Have you ever been bitten by the gossip bug at work? We ALL have, and I'd say I don't like admitting that I have multiple times. According to research, as explained in Psychology Today, conducted by a team from the University of Amsterdam, 90 percent of office conversations are actually gossips. Researchers at Georgia Institute…

Are you allowing others to dictate your time?

Are you caught being dragged into places you don't want to go to?You have a lot of obligations with family, work,Ā friends, boyfriend/partner/spouse that you HAVE to go to, and I get that.Within all of theseĀ things that you are obligated and most likely guilt-tripped to do, you are also not scheduling activities that align with your…

What are you not allowing IN?

If you are holding tightly to something, within the illusion of control, what are you NOT allowing IN? When I heard myself say this out loud with my business coach the other day, I thought to myself, damn. That's been me! As much as I pride myself on thinking I'm an over evolved human and more…

Boundaries are a Thing.

The dreaded word for some of us is "boundaries."  I'm not sure why we dread it or why it makes us uncomfortable, but for some reason or reasons, it does. I used to be someone who struggled with this a lot. I learned a dynamic of codependency as the norm, and I began to see…

Accountability and Consequences – Related?

What happens when you don't do what you say you are going to do? What happens when your impact on others is toxic, and you've heard the feedback already? What happens when you believe that you can say whatever you need to say to get the results you want? What happens next? I ran a…

At some point, you will

How's week two of 2020 going so far for you? Is it week two or week three? I can't tell.There is something in the air that we can't see, and it's making people rethink their lives and what's next for them. The world is going through a lot, and we, as humans, have contributed to…